Love is in the air

Good Word Wednesday

Oh, I love Valentine's Day. I know it's still only January, but Walmart was taking down Christmas decor on December 24th and stocking the "Seasonal" isle with little red boxes and Dora the Explorer cards. So little ol' me can start talking Valentines, too.

My Granma Sue and Granpa Eddie made the Valentine's of my childhood so magical. Every evening of February 14th we would find a beautiful basket of pink and red wonderment. Candies, socks, pencils, trinkets and homemade goodies. I didn't know it was them till I was older. I just thought they came for a visit coincidentally minutes after our Secret Admirer had left. Mom and Dad filled in a few years, too. To me that's what Valentines is about, showing you care outside of the red heart-shaped box.

So here ya have it -

Today the good word is: Sweet Deals for your Sweetheart.

You know I'm all about the handmade or made-from-the-heart kind of gift.

Flowers and chocolates rock, but c'mon people, you can buy that stuff at the QT.

I'm talking about thoughtfulness and downright "I love you with all my guts" kind of a gift.

Here are a couple of my favorites so far:

My hubs doesn't know it yet, but this is what he's getting from me for St. Valentines. We're going to get our Love Story made and it will be hot. H-yeah, I'll post all about it.

Click the Life Happens Studios link below to get the whole scoop.

Seriously, girlfriends, a real winner right here for years to come.

Love shea butter, gorgeously yummy smells and rich, smooth lather? Excuse me while I wipe away the drool. Love to have your Honey in shea butter, gorgeously yummy smells and rich, smooth lather?

Thought so. Then click the tvala handmade link below and your wish has been granted.

What a win-win baby.

If you know of other handmade-from-the-heart-unique Valentine's gifts let me know.

I love bragging...er...blogging about the talented ones I get to know.

If you ever plan on taking your kids bowling, be prepared to have tons of fun but bring a lot of candy for the under-aged crowd.

Well, I guess it's safe to say that this blog (like my life) will be constantly in a state of construction. I get bored with backgrounds and feel the need to change things up all the time. This current theme I've come up with is one I really connect with, so maybe I'll wear it for a while longer than the others.

Somethings been on my mind, Homies, so I hope you don't mind if I spell it out. It's my blog and I think that's okay. Its totally "mommy-blogger" of me to even mention it. But I am a mom and I blog. Boy, do I blog. I am a freaking Mommy Blogger. So sue me. If I make you uncomfortable...then you haven't known me long enough. You'll get used to it. Ha! You should see the eyebrows that I've raised over at the in-laws! But I am getting better... Oh, and now I've totally made you nervous, haven't I? Sorry, well, it's not that big a deal...it's just that this month marks the seventh month that our little family has been "trying" to expand our ranks and I'm feeling a little down. I guess my letter to Santa got lost in the mail. If you've ever been in a position such as mine, then you understand that seven months can seem like a very long time. But we've wanted and waited longer.

And even though conceiving hasn't come super easy for me, compared to others, it hasn't been hard. I know I'm a lucky girl, and I love love love the two angels I've been blessed with. I have a very tender spot in my heart for anyone who has wanted so badly, but had to wait for their angels to show up. But because we don't want another four-and-a-half-year gap; this month on the advice of the good doctor we are again seeking the help of our friendly neighborhood pharmacy and attempting to speed things up.

Please say a little prayer for me, would ya? Thanks.

Alright, let's put that away now. So, happy day off to you and yours! Porter made the Honor Roll again and we need to come through with our end of the bargain. A family outing to the bowling alley. Not a bad way to spend a Monday afternoon, eh?

What do you have going on today?

Flashback Friday

Ready for a flashback? Here we go.

Yesterday.

Chase Waters came home and swept our Beth off her feet...

Bethany and Chase tie the knot.

January 15th, 2009

Here's the picture play-by-play.

And a few captions when necessary.

The Wedding.

Not a dry eye in the house because of this glowing beauty.

I love her.

The fab photographers.

One proud sister.

The Reception.

Man, what a party.

My family doesn't do anything small. Maybe you already noticed that.Allow me to give you the tour of my parent's yard, where the reception was held.

The back porch.

Side patio.
(Porter, "warming" himself) Main yard. I never got the view of the back patio by the pool where the Bride and Groom stood, but here's Port and London sitting under their archway.
Little LaLa was so over having her picture taken, so Olen had to get creative to make her grin.

What did he do, you ask, to acheive such a smile? He took out his prosthetic eye. Aren't you glad you asked? For some reason my kids think this is so funny. Olen does, too, of course. He would say "Smile, Buttercup, and you can hold my eye!" Then she would laugh and wiggle and I would take the shot.

It is kind of funny if your daddy can pop out his eye at whim. I guess.But when it came time for her to claim her prize; she declined. No, thanks, Dadda. Gotta go.

One more of me and B just before she and Chase ran through this... Then off they went to pack for their 8am flight to Hawaii and to

Live Happily Ever After...

It's Good Word Wednesday!

Around here that's an open invitation to jot down something joyful about your life in this moment, or some good news, or just maybe a funny story about your kid.

We all got good in there somewhere. Find it. Write it. Remember it.

It will make you happy and it will make those that read it happy. Especially me. I guarantee it.

Today I'm taking the funny story about my kid route.

London is two and a half. She's entering into this not-a-baby-but-not-ready-to-be-a-big-kid stage, and it's weird. It's kind of new to me because Porter went from newborn to twenty-five.

Elle's favorite new past-time is gathering. Like, she gathers all her dolls and puts them to "bed" in random spots of the house. Laundry hampers, under the table, in the freezer (that was a creepy discovery). She gathers her hair ties and bows and sorts them into baggies. That's another thing. She's obsessed with everything going into baggies. What's with that? She puts trash into a baggie before she throws it away! I'm thinking this isn't normal.

But I'm getting used to it. I walk into a room and things just aren't quite the way I left them, and that usually means I really just walked into London's latest gathering and sorting project.

Is this a little girl thing that I've been left out on?

So when I opened my dresser drawers I wasn't surprised at all to find this...

...in all five drawers.

I wish she could explain her motives a little better because I bet there's a great story behind this.

The weekend

Friday night was date night. We ate out at Mi Amigos with an assortment of some of my favorite people in honor of Bethany and Chase. I haven't been there in about fifty-two years, and man, have I been missing out. Best cheese enchiladas ever. Heaven with a side of beans and rice.  

So, Saturday my mom and sisters and sister-in-law hosted a Bridal Shower for Beth cuz' she's goin' to the Temple and she's gunna get married this week. We had a fab turn out and the party went off without a hitch.

I know the brightness is all out of whack on this picture, but it was such a Kodak Moment, I don't care. Check out the look on my Gram's face as Beth opened the nightie given to her by her future mother-in-law. Priceless. Oh, Grams, I love you.

While London and I were at the Shower, Olen and Porter were at his back-to-back flag football games on Saturday. They don't keep score in flag football, did you know that? But you better believe I can tell some parents are keeping track. Porter always determines if his team wins by how he felt about his own performance in the game. Saturday he went in for a dive and pulled the flag off a kid from the other team; so his team must have won. In another game when he was given the ball he started running the wrong way for about three yards; so they probably didn't win that game.

Me? I'm so preoccupied trying to know what Porter must be thinking out there on the field. If you know me at all, you know I am not competitive in sports (other things-you bet 'cha). Never have been crazy about competitive sports, though. I would probably just hand you the gold medal and say "Live it up" than put effort into proving anything to anyone. So I am always wondering if Porter is actually having fun or if he's just "playing a game". He says he loves it, and he's pretty darn good at it, too. So, I will continue to watch and wonder. I guess that's my role as a mom on the sidelines. That, and kicking some major trash if anyone hurts my baby out there on the field. Right? I get to do that. Right?

Flashback Friday

My little sister Bethany is getting married next Thursday.

It is going to be lovely. My parent's have turned their Historic House upside down and redone the lawns to host the reception. Months of preparation and years of anticipation (Beth and Chase have been BFF's since high school and through out missions and more) will all be worth it in only six days.

Well, I love weddings. Everything about love and new lives starting. It's the best.

All this wedding buzz is making me remember a day just about eight years ago...

Flashback to:

April 20, 2001

My wedding day. I'm wearing my Grandma's veil. The same one my mom wore and all my aunts (but one) wore. It was so special. And counted for my something "borrowed" and something "old".

I know you all are totally digging my red hair. Olen thought it was natural when we first met and still wishes that I would go back to red. What say you?

Here's the dirty dozen...almost. One of those is not family at all (long story) and I'm missing a couple brothers. But this is what we looked like back in 2001. There's Beth far left.

My big brother Christopher was on his second year of serving a mission in Sacramento, California. I almost postponed the wedding till his return in November (he's one of my best friends after all), but Olen accepted a job in Flagstaff the day he proposed and I wasn't down for the long-distance thing. So we were hitched four months later in the Mesa Temple. Then Chris came home to his little sister who was married and seven months pregnant. Um? Welcome home, Bud!

Christopher and Me. Only 369 days apart.

Yes. I know my bouquet rocked the house. It was the only thing I was most picky on. I wanted it just like my Aunt Nola's so that I could hang it on the wall. It now resides in London's room. Chelsea and Katie (in matching buttercup-colored skirts) were my Maids of Honor (I couldn't choose just one!) and Bethany, Darcy and my four BFF's from high school were my Brides Maids. That's my gorgeous Mamasita Bonita on the left.

I wanted a Garden Wedding and there were flowers everywhere. I love flowers. It was amazing. Completely just the way I wanted it. And let's be real, how many people can say that?

B, I hope that next Friday you can say that.

Good Word Wednesday!

Yesterday was just one of those days. You know the kind. Everything that possibly could ever need getting done happens to plop land in one twelve-hour segment. Plus a sick baby on top.

So when I finally crash landed in bed last night I was totally spent. I fell hard into a deep sleep and didn't wake up until Olen was inches from my nose asking me if I was getting sick, too. No I'm not. Just sick of sick kids.

Then while trying to shake my sleepiness and make a bowl of Cap'n Crunch with Crunchberries I was wishing it was Red Bull instead of milk that I was pouring (I know, I know, I read December's Ensign, too, but c'mon). And then I remembered my dream from last night.

I was driving my bed around to the Starbuck's drive-through window with Olen asleep at my side. I was so tired that I remember I couldn't see well enough to turn the corner and I kept telling myself I would never drive beds ever again. I came up to the window and I was explaining to the girl that I've never ordered coffee before and I was asking her if I should add cherry or vanilla to my drink (Ha! But, you can tell I sure have gotten drinks at QT!). She said she wasn't allowed to tell me how to make my drink, so I had to wake up Olen and ask him how. Olen just told me to go back to sleep and not take him to Starbuck's in the middle of the night anymore.

So, homies, there's proof that I am not fit to be awake today. Or drive beds. I hope you got a laugh out of that. Olen did. And now he's wondering why I was craving coffee in the middle of the night. Oh, and what I was wearing.

Have you ever had crazy dreams? Remember Good Word Wednesday is all about sharing the things that help you find "joy in the journey" and maybe bring a smile to those that read it, too.

Maybe next time I'll tell about the dream I had when I was pregnant with Porter and dreamt that he was a grown man and I was forcing him to nurse...that one was kind of a nightmare.

Don't you love the smell of schedules in the morning?!

Hooray for returning to the routines! After these last two weeks of holidays and no set schedules, today has been such a welcomed Monday. Port went back to school without much of a fuss. I think he was starting to get bored here at home and sick of me finding ways for him to be busy (unloading the dishwasher, scrubbing the bath tubs, organizing the toy room...) but that's what happens around here when you tell me "I'm soooo bored". I think the lesson was learned. (Thanks, mom.)

Better keep your distance. The flu bug hit our house this past weekend. Porter caught it first and now London hasn't been her usual 105mph self. On Saturday Porter woke up with tummy troubles and when he finally came out of the bathroom I asked him if he went #1 or #2 he said, "No way mom! That was like #10!"

"Oh. Good." was my response. T.M.I. Thanks, Port.

Luckily, that bug didn't last long and hasn't spread. Hopefully your house doesn't catch the #10's.

I read this book, recommend and borrowed from my mamasita, over the weekend. I usually don't go for the real-life-learn-a-lesson kind of books, but this one was so lovely and inspirational. Really a great prelude to the new year. Go rent, borrow or buy this one pronto and I bet you'll agree.

So, I figure that even though it's January 5th, it really is the first day that our Resolutions begin. So today is day one and everything else was a freebie. Right? Right. So that Texas sheet cake I made last night doesn't count. Good. That's what I thought.

Another resolution I have is to catch up on my homies' blogs. I haven't had time to stop and say hey all month. We really still love you. So I promise to pay a visit soon. But right now I need to watch 'Curious George' with London for the millionth time.

And, seriously, where are my paragraph breaks?!

Dear 2009, Let's be friends. Okay?

Before I go on, it was brought to my attention that I should probably clarify Porter's post on his coyote hunting trip for the readers who are less familiar with the way of hunting and outdoorsey stuff. And so the reader doesn't get the wrong idea about our family. Olen and his brothers are experienced hunters with licenses and predator permits to hunt coyote. We respect nature and definitely do not condone killing just for sport. But here in AZ we've got a lot of coyotes and need to keep them in check. The tail and ears of a predator, such as coyote, are typically all that is harvested and turned in for bounty collection with the game and fish department. In this case, Porter's bounty will be a hat of some sort. Well, we'll see. Okay. So, that's that.

Now let the Flashback Friday begin!

I'm not flashing back too far here.

The year. 2008. The day. Christmas.

It was such a wonderfully eventful day that I didn't stop to take many pictures. The one above is a favorite because it pretty much captures the mood of the whole day. Porter fell in love with every little thing he was given and London just floated through the day in a daze of wrapping paper and new plastic smell.

Family was visited. Food was eaten. Bed-time came late. It was all that I had wanted it to be. I'm still waiting on one of my presents...I can't wait till it's done because it is going to be hot.

New Year's Eve. Guys, seriously, I can't believe all that has happened in just the course of a week. It feels like a whole month ago. And I keep thinking today should be Sunday because yesterday felt like Saturday. Anyhow, um, back to New Year's Eve.

First we had a Rock Band party at Chris and Katie's Miller St. Cottage. I consumed more won-tons than I can count and London refused to go to sleep. That could have been because she kept sneaking drinks out of Olen's Dr. Pepper. Porter was at Nana and Papa's Polar Bear party a few blocks away.

Olen sought Rock Band immunity by being the official baby-holder. Can't blame him. He is such a natural. So cuddly.

Then it was off to witness the Polar Bears at my mom and dad's casa. Porter didn't want to jump, which was good, because I would have said no anyways.

We sang our best version of Auld Lang Syne and drank a cup of Martinelli's to toast the new year. Man, I love that song. We need to sing that song more often. Then all the ones brave enough, or crazy enough, jumped into the freezing swimming pool at 12:05am. Then couldn't swim fast enough to get out a second later.

Happy New Year! We wish you a wonderfully fabulous year, and hope you had someone to kiss at midnight.

We began this new year by sleeping in, being with family and riding horses.

So far, so good.

New Year's Resolution? One of them is to figure out why Blogger won't publish my posts with paragraph breaks. I swear I type it that way and then it all lands together. Ugh!

Have you thought about your New Year's Resolutions?